Are you playing the blame game?

blame game

Almost everyone has played the blame game at some point. The rules are simple, if you get accused of doing, or not doing something, you need to deflect the situation by pushing the blame onto someone else! The key to winning the game is to ensure that no one is able to blame you for the things you have done incorrectly, or create enough diversions to avoid any fingers being pointed at you! If you play the game long enough, denial begins to set in and pretty soon the player  actually begins to think he/she can do no wrong.

This game most always has a sad ending, with the winner more often than not, isolated, and suffering from a severe case of denial.

Playing the blame game is easy, it often starts off as an easy way to get oneself out of a sticky situation. The problem begins when addiction to the game sets in, and soon you are so far in the game that quitting is no longer an option.

Do your best to stay away from this game at all costs, for the betterment of your life, and for those around you.

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Usman Sheikh - Usman is an entrepreneur and an avid blogger. He also has his own blog at www.usmansheikh.com.

 

6 Comments


  1. MK
    Dec 11, 2009

    So true!


  2. WK
    Dec 12, 2009

    Great post…
    Makes you think about how many lies a person would makeup to cover his mistakes…

    Result: A NEVER ENDING chain of lies until someone is busted…


  3. Andrew Pelt
    Apr 05, 2010

    great stuff thx


  4. Burton Haynes
    Apr 13, 2010

    awesome article thx!


  5. Hipolito M. Wiseman
    Apr 13, 2010

    awesome work thanks


  6. Matthew C. Kriner
    Apr 13, 2010

    great work thx!

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